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		<title>Bi-curious Exploration for Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 22:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a re-post of an article I wrote a while back. Last weekend I hosted a workshop called “Like a Pro” that was taught by Dr. Betty Martin from Seattle. Betty is my favourite teacher of intimacy skills. The class was geared to people like myself who use touch especially sensual and sexual touch [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Casual, Committed or Conscious Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2011 04:43:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A recent email conversation with a friend of mine got me thinking about the differences between Casual, Committed and Conscious sex and how to get more good sex in general. My friend is a woman who is beautiful, smart, unattached and very busy as a full time grad student. Here’s what she wrote: How can [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Women Paying For Sex?!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2011 14:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This piece of writing is specifically directed toward heterosexual women but I hope there is something in it for you even if you&#8217;re not in that particular group. Traditionally the main consumers of paid sexual services have been men. There are many reasons for that. I think most significantly women have had far less disposable [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Finding the Road to ErosTown</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2011 21:22:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication Skills]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This bit of writing is especially for couples. I&#8217;d like to make a distinction between Love and Eros. In my opinion most folks tend to confuse these two characters. Like they&#8217;re one and the same. My belief is that while they do share a certain affinity, they actually live in quite different neighbourhoods. In LoveVille [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Understanding the Sexual Healing Process – What is Healing Anyway &#8211; Part 1?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 21:20:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Erotic Education]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[All right, I’m working on an synthesis of my knowledge and experience about sexual healing from the perspective of my own practice with my clients, which is a combination of erotic/sexual touch, mindfulness, and a form a body centred psychotherapy called Hakomi which I’ve been studying for 3 years now. I’m writing this mostly because [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Understanding The Sexual Healing Process – Introduction</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2011 19:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For almost three years now I have been training in a form of emotion and body centred psychotherapy called Hakomi. This method, the life work of visionary Ron Kurtz who just recently passed away, is a synthesis of ancient spiritual practices and the most leading edge science on the workings of the brain/mind/emotion/body phenomena. I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Journey to Erotic Self-expression</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 22:52:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Erotic Energy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are times in life when the erotic spark just disappears. The loss of a relationship is a good example. If one’s erotic life is inspired by a significant Other, then losing Them can be devastating. But loss, accompanied with appropriate grieving of course, also makes room for something new to emerge. Even when nothing [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Becoming A Touch Centred Sex Educator and Therapist</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 04:40:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The title of my website is Massage By Ki implies massage and you might wonder what the link is between massage and Sex Education and Therapy. It seems like quite a jump. Well I think that telling my personal story of how I got into this work and how it is evolving might make it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Erotic Education and Sex-Negativity</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 01:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Erotic Education]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I often teach classes about sex &#8211; erotic massage, sexual communication, tantra and the like. Of course most people are just too anxious to even consider coming to a class about sex. Which leads me into a discussion on why that is. The main reason is, &#8220;On some level we are all afraid and ashamed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Learning Massage, Learning to Live</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 00:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ki</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Body Sensation Awareness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breathing]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article was written by one of my erotic massage students, Paul. It&#8217;s inspiring! He has more writings on his blog The Listing Bucketeer *************************************** My wife and I have always enjoyed receiving a good massage. Mostly we’d fill the need by heading out to the local clinic or spa, but we also read a [...]]]></description>
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