Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coaching

Somatic sex and intimacy coaching brings fulfillment and freedom into your relation to yourself and your partner(s). This benefits all areas of your life. Health, vitality, creativity, productivity, and harmony in your relationships are all enhanced if your sexual energy is expressed and flowing.

Unfortunately we live in a culture which does not provide a good space for a healthy sexuality to occur. Most of the education we receive about sexuality via popular media is inaccurate or harmful. The consequence is that most people have a sex life which falls somewhere in the range of tolerable to terrible. Few people have sex lives which are a source of love, joy, and inspiration.

Life doesn't have to be that way if you are willing to have a bit of courage. Thats where a sex coach can help.

Here are some common reasons why people come to see me for somatic sex coaching:

• A desire to increase capacity for pleasure
• A desire to experience multiple orgasms and "full body" orgasms
• A desire to learn about "spiritual" or "tantric" sex
• A desire to have orgasm
• Difficulty achieving or sustaining an erection
• Premature ejaculation difficulties
• Guilt and shame around sexual desires
• Wanting to heal from sexual trauma
• Poor or non-existent libido
• Desire to learn sexual touch skills
• Difficulty communicating sexual desires to their partner(s)
• Wanting to have better sexual boundaries
• Not feeling desire for, or not having sex with, their partner(s)
• Uncomfortable receiving or giving sexual touch
• Fantasies they are not comfortable with
• Newly single or newly in a relationship
• Desire to explore a new fantasy or sexual activity

All of these concerns and desires can be addressed. A fulfilling sex and intimate life is totally possible whether you are single or in a relationship and whatever your gender or sexual orientation is.

Here are some outcomes that you can expect:

• You will develop a clear vision of the sex and intimate life that will be fulfilling and uniquely authentic for you.
• You will have the communication skills to express your sexual needs and desires to your partner(s). You'll be able to receptively hear and respond to their needs and desires as well.
• You will have skills for creating and sustaining intimate, loving and spiritual sexual relationships.
• You will have the confidence to pleasure yourself and your partner(s).
• You will have the ability to generate your own orgasmic energy.

The idea of getting sex and intimacy coaching may seem unusual. To make it easier for you to see if you would like to try it out, I offer a no charge, 45 minute, introductory session. In this session you can ask me any questions you wish. We can see if we are a good fit for each other. For many people its a huge relief just to meet someone who knows about sex and is comfortable talking about it.  

Coaching is a partnership. We will design our work together. First we will identify what your goals are - what authentic sexual expression looks like for you. Next we'll chart a course to get you there. I promise, if you do the work, you will meet your goals.

What is somatics? Somatics refers to the lived experience of the body. In somatics we view our personal and subjective experience of life - sensations, emotions, movements, words and thoughts - as an integrated system. In Somatics we expand our awareness of what's happening within us. This is called "embodiment" or "being embodied". Through embodiment we gain transformational insights about ourselves - often referred to as body wisdom or body epiphanies.

I am also available to do Somatic Sex and Intimacy workshops and trainings for groups in your area. Please contact me if you would like to create this with me.

I have done a couple of postings in my blog about Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coaching if you would like to learn more click here...

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