Tantric Massage

A tantric massage is a relaxing, revitalizing and erotic massage where I guide you to consciously explore and play with the energy of your body. This energy is known by various names such as: chi, ki, qi, kundalini, bio-energy, erotic energy, sexual energy, orgasmic energy or tantric energy.

However you want to call this energy, what's most important is how it is felt in your body. That feeling is Pleasure.

In a tantric massage you will learn simple physical practices and be touched by me in a way that will give you access to profound pleasure, possibly more pleasure than you have ever felt before. In this highly energized state, deep layers of physical and emotional tension, that you may have been holding for years, often just melt away. You leave a session feeling unburdened and alive.

Here's what a session looks like.

We'll start by sitting down and talking. You can share with me why you have come to see me and what your intentions are. We will talk about your boundaries ie. what you'd like to happen and what you don't want to happen.

I'll teach you some simple physical practices that involve awareness of body sensations, gentle conscious breathing, body movements, and using certain muscles. Remember the purpose of these practices is to access more pleasure, so we'll be using them in a way which is fun, easy and pleasureable. There's no work involved in finding pleasure.

I'll give you some privacy to get undressed and to get onto the massage table. We can start with a sheet that covers you, if that makes you feel comfortable, or you can be completely naked. I keep the room warm.

I'll give you an exquisite erotic massage using my soft, strong and skillful hands. I will give special attention to your pelvis, breasts, belly, buttocks, anus, and genitals, if you desire and feel comfortable with with me doing so. But we don't have to go there either. I'm confident and competent in massaging these intimate areas but that doesn't need to happen for you to receive the benefits of a tantric massage.

While receiving the massage you'll use the physical practices I've taught you, with gentle coaching from me. Some easy effort on your part is required, however you don't have to get it right. It's not a test. It's playful. Again the emphasis is on pleasure.

With me massaging you, and you doing the practices, you may find that the level of energy and pleasure you feel can rise to a level that may be unfamiliar to you. How high you go depends on the capacity of your body and your own intention. My approach is to encourage my clients to go slowly and to stay very grounded and connected to their body.

These high energy states can be meditative and blissful or exciting and ecstatic. I know from giving tantric massages to hundreds of clients and receiving many myself, that no two sessions are the same. It's a mystery.

You may have emotional releases. You may be able to forgive yourself or others for things that happened long ago. You may find freedom from shame and a new acceptance of your body and pleasure. You may have new insights or inspirations. Things may happen inside you that words won't easily express.

So a tantric massage is a mystical journey. On that journey I promise to guide you, to keep you safe and to not judge you in any way. Whatever happens, you will grow and learn about yourself.

While I am on the topic of safety I need to say a few words about protocols. The work I do can't easily be conceived by some people. Yes I do often touch people's genitals as part of a tantric massage but I'm not an escort and I don't have sex with my clients. I wear clothes. The touch is just one-way, from me to you and I only use my hands and arms for massage.

For safety and hygiene, I wear medical gloves when touching the anus or the genitals (my pictures need to be updated to reflect this).

These protocols are non-negotiable. They help to maintain a safe space when we are engaging this potent erotic energy, especially if your intention is to heal from sexual trauma. These protocols will allow you to enter much deeper into your own process.

Your first tantric massage is a minimum of 2 hours long; but, longer sessions of 2.5 or 3 hours are more powerful. Learning the practices takes time. And it takes time to reach the high levels of energy and pleasure where the benefits of this work can be realized.

A tantric massage is to be savoured not rushed.

Please read more about tantric massage for men, women and couples:

Tantric Massage For Men

Tantric Massage For Women

Tantric Massage For Couples