| Tantric
Massage For Men
Before
reading this, I encourage you to read the overview on tantric
massage.
Why do men seek out tantric massage?
While each man has his own reasons there are definitely
certain themes which I have been witness to over my years of sharing
this work with hundreds of men. I speak also from my own experience
in receiving tantric massage. The following themes are not separate
unto themselves, they weave into each other.
Sexual Healing
1 in 6 men have been sexually abused as children.
I believe that every single man has been sexually wounded to some
degree. Perhaps it was the priest that told you that masturbation
was sinful, or parents that punished you for innocently touching
yourself because it felt good, or an insensitive lover that ridiculed
you. Our mass media, which uses sex to sell everything, also makes
us feel inadequate about our bodies and our capacities as lovers.
No we aren't all James Bond.
So we are all survivors of sexual trauma on some
level. We cope, yet for most of us our sexuality is burdened with
fear, guilt and shame. A tantric massage can help liberate you.
One client told me that a 3 hour session was like
3 years of talk therapy. I'm not at all dismissing the power of
other therapies. In fact tantric massage can be an extemely powerful
complement to other forms of therapy.
Lasting
Longer and Feeling More Erotic Pleasure
We learn bad habits as teenagers and adults, masturbating
silently and furtively in our rooms hoping not to get caught, or
masturbating watching porn while completely disconnected from our
bodies. These and other reasons can create a pattern within us where
ejaculation occurs when only a small amount of sexual energy and
pleasure has been enjoyed.
Our sexual energy is like a spaceship which can
transport us to beautiful and interesting new worlds where we can
bring back incredible treasures; but most of us use our spaceship
to go down the street to pick up a loaf of white bread.
Tantric massage can help you master your spaceship!
You can have multiple, prolonged, full body, ecstatic experiences
during a tantric massage. You'll learn to tune into very subtle
sensations of pleasure and raise the erotic energy in your body
to levels you may never have known before.
As an added bonus the techniques you will learn
will help you be a better lover with yourself and with others.
The Joy of Receiving
To receive erotic touch free of the worries of
"performing" or meeting someone else's expectations is something
many men have never experienced before.
Learning to receive can be challenging. We have
to face our lack of worthiness and our guilt and shame. We have
to learn to surrender. The reward is great though, our capacity
for intimacy and pleasure expands.
Tantric massage is a great practice in receiving
because the touch is always one-way, from me to you. I expect nothing
from you other than to breathe and be in your body, which I will
help you to do with gentle coaching.
A Tantric Massage is equally pleasurable with
a hard cock or a soft cock, with ejaculation or without ejaculation.
Living your erotic energy free from all of these "goals"
is a good habit to develop.
Exploring
New Territory
Its sad but true that our culture shoves us into
little boxes and this is especially true around our sexuality. Tantric
massage is a very safe way to explore outside the box.
Many men come to see me because they have never
been touched erotically by another man. They would like to try it
in a safe way where they can be completely in control of the situation
and where their boundaries will be respected. In fact, I help men
identify where their boundaries are. Even just being able to talk
about these things openly is very healing.
Other men would like to explore touch and massage
in areas they haven't received touch before, especially the anus
and the prostate. Again I do this slowly, safely, consciously and
with respect for boundaries.
Connecting
Spirit and Sex
Many men appreciate the ritual quality that I
bring to my tantric massage sessions. I don't force my version of
spirituality on anyone but I often do simple spiritual things, like
speaking affirmations, that help bring the session into a sacred
space.
I also teach my clients how to circulate sexual
energy through their whole body especially their heart where it
can open them to a greater love for themselves and all beings and
a create the tangible feeling of being centred, whole, and connected
to God, Goddess, Great Spirit, the Universe, etc...
Other Reasons
I invite you to explore you own reasons for choosing
to receive a tantric massage and please let me know what they are
at the start of your session.
Call 604-618-3381 to schedule your session. Outcalls
to your residence or hotel are also available.
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